Watch our 2023 Veterans' Benefit Concert Now on Youtube

We have finally received the full video performance of our Veterans Concert from June 4th, 2023!

This concert was a major project, a special gift for our veterans and a fund raiser for Operation K9 Beethoven, in which St. Thomas was able to raise enough money to help sponsor a dog for a veteran in need. Follow the link to watch the playlist of the concert. 

 
 

If you wish to have more info for Operation K9 Beethoven, follow this link: Operation K9 Beethoven

 

September Club Spring 2024 Trips

The St. Thomas the Apostle September Club announces our upcoming trips for this spring. We welcome non-members to join us. Don’t miss out on a great opportunity to have a fun time! We will be announcing additional trips for summer and fall in the near future.

ANDY COONEY IRISH CABARET - March 15 (Friday) 11:30am at the Hunterdon Hills Playhouse. Enjoy the talents of this famed Irish entertainer right in time for St. Patrick’s Day. $115 Per Person includes Show with sit-down served Lunch, Bus Transportation & all gratuities. Full payment of $115 due at Sign-Up. (Wait-listing)

JOE ZISA AND THE JERSEY DREAMERS - April 24 (Wednesday) 11:00 - 3:00 p.m. at Hanover Manor, East Hanover, NJ. Enjoy an afternoon of blast from the past music, dancing and dining at Joe Zisa’s “Moments To Remember” Show. $85 Per Person includes Lunch, Show, Bus Transportation & All Gratuities. (One complimentary drink other bar purchases not included).

NY BOTANICAL GARDENS & LUNCH AT ARTHUR AVE. - May 23 (Thursday) $125 Per Person includes All Garden Pass, Tram Ride, Lunch at Mario’s on Arthur Avenue, Time for shopping in the Arthur Ave. Retail Market, Bus Transportation & All Gratuities.

“BEAUTIFUL: THE CAROL KING MUSICAL” - June 27 (Thursday) 7:30 pm at the Paper Mill Playhouse Preceded by prix fixe dinner at Joey’s Tap & Tavern, Millburn. $120 Per Person includes Dinner, Show, Bus Transportation & All Gratuities.

Please note, some trips have limited capacity. If you’re interested please contact us at Septemberclub4@gmail.com or call Renee Miscione at 347-675-3581 for individual trip information sheets that have a stub at the bottom that must be returned with your deposit to reserve your spot on a trip.

Our Parish Food Pantry: A Message from Deacon Brian

Hello friends of the St. Thomas Food Pantry! I pray that you and your families are well.

We read in the Book of Hebrews 12:1, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” Some of us may question, who is this “great cloud of witnesses?” The great cloud of witnesses are the many saints, the holy ones who have gone before us, those souls who opened themselves up to the grace of God by allowing God’s light to shine through them, bringing the Light of God’s love into the places where light was needed the most. By their witness, we are more able to imitate them, to be like God.

One of these witnesses is the Servant of God Catherine de Hueck Doherty. Catherine was born in Russia on August 15, 1896, to parents of deep Christian faith, who communicated to her an extraordinary love for the poor. Often, she accompanied her mother on her visits to the local poor. Frequently she saw her father get up from the table and wait on beggars who came to the door for food. ‘“A love that is not incarnate is not real love,” she would say. Catherine would become a dedicated wife and mother, a friend of Dorothy Day and Thomas Merton, a Servant of God. Similar to many saints, Catherine experienced a closeness to God. She heard the voice of Christ say to her, “Arise — go... sell all you possess... take up your cross and follow Me.”

This divine calling brought Catherine to establish the “Friendship House”, where in Harlem, Chicago and Toronto, she strove to clothe the Gospel with love and service to the poor. She also founded the Madonna House Apostolate, a Catholic community of men, women and priests living in poverty, dedicated to loving and serving Jesus Christ. Through donations of clothing, food, goods and money, members of the Apostolate are enabled to live out their promise of poverty, and better identify with the poor whom they serve. Today the Madonna Apostolate has field houses located throughout the world. Catherine died December 14 th , 1985. Her cause for canonization as a saint is under consideration by the Catholic Church. I recommend you take some time to learn more about her. Catherine de Hueck Doherty became God’s instrument by allowing His love to enter and move through her, most especially in her service to the poor. She is a wonderful model for us to follow.

When we donate food to the St. Thomas Food Pantry, we become like Catherine de Hueck Doherty, an instrument of God, a channel of peace, a channel of love. When we love one another, we pass on God’s grace and mercy to others, and to ourselves. Having been blessed, we can bless others in our parish community and outside our parish community. Grace is not meant to be hoarded and stored. And let us remember that giving to the poor is a foundational and non-negotiable Christian obligation. “If someone who has the riches of this world sees his brother in need and closes his heart to him, how does the love of God abide in him?” (1 Jn 3:17)

Thank you for your giving, past, present and future. The food you donate to the St. Thomas Food Pantry is distributed to needy parishioners and to local soup kitchens. If you or somebody you know is in need of food, please contact the parish center. All communication is completely confidential.

HOW TO DONATE

Donated food should be left inside the handicap-accessible doorway at the back south side of the Church. Be careful not to place bags/boxes in the path of foot traffic.

Only non-perishable food items are suitable for our Food Pantry, which include:

Peanut Butter & Jelly, Cereal/Oatmeal, Pancake mix & syrup, Coffee & Tea bags, Canned tuna, Macaroni & Cheese, Canned vegetables, Canned Fruit, Canned soups and stews, Pasta Sauce & Pasta, Canned fruit juice, Bagged Rice, Canned or Bagged Beans, Powdered Potatoes, Powdered Milk, Stuffing Mix, Cake Mix, Baby Food. Again, FOOD ITEMS ONLY.

Supermarket Gift Cards are gladly accepted, please drop them off at the parish center. If you wish to donate fresh/frozen beef or poultry to the parish (only current sell-by date), please contact the parish center.

LET US PRAY

O God, thank you for the abundance of life, relationships, health, comfort, and wealth you have provided, and thank you that even in times of need, despair, and brokenness, you are there. ... and, Lord, guide us, so we can be your hands and feet, pursuing justice for the poor and upholding the cause of the needy. Amen.

PEACE!

Your friend in Christ,

Deacon Brian

Lent and Easter Mass and Liturgical Schedule 2024

ASH WEDNESDAY 2/14

  • Masses at 8am, 11:30am, and 7pm; Service at 4 pm

CONFESSION

  • Every Saturday at 1 pm (except March 30th)

STATIONS OF THE CROSS

  • Every Friday 2/16-3/29 at 7pm [with music]

ADORATION OF THE BLESSED SACRAMENT

  • Monday, February 26th after 11:30am Mass and at 7pm

  • Monday, March 18th after 11:30am Mass and at 7pm

HOLY WEEK

  • Passion Palm Sunday, March 24th

    • Palms blessed at 5:00pm mass on Saturday March 23rd

    • Palms distributed at all masses

  • Holy Thursday, March 28th

    • (No morning Mass)

    • Mass of the Lord's Supper, 7:30pm

    • Night Prayer 11:00pm

  • Good Friday, March 29th

    • Morning Prayer 8:30am

    • (No morning Mass)

    • Passion of the Lord 3pm

    • Living Stations of the Cross 7pm

  • Holy Saturday, March 30th

    • Morning Prayer, 8:30am

    • No scheduled confessions and no 5:00pm mass

    • Easter Vigil Mass [Adult Choir] 8:00pm

    • The Easter Vigil Mass Satisfies Easter Sunday obligation

  • Easter Sunday, March 31st

    • Masses at 8am, 10am [Children’s Choir], 12 noon

 

RESOURCES FROM THE USCCB

What is Lent? Lent is a 40 day season of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving that begins on Ash Wednesday and ends at sundown on Holy Thursday. Click here to read more.

2024 Daily Lent Calendar. Available in English and Spanish.

10 Things to Remember During Lent.

Notice of Suspension of Holy Name Society’s Tax Assistance Program

It is with deep sadness that with the recent passing of Dennis Sutton, retired CPA, the Holy Name Society must suspend its parishioner income tax preparation program that was scheduled to begin in early February.  Persons who have relied in the past on Dennis’s dedicated service over the years will need to find alternative assistance elsewhere for their tax preparation.

Our society has no other person(s) to provide this service.  Of course, the Society will attempt to identify person(s) to perform this service but it is not likely that we will be successful during this tax season. 

Dennis is truly irreplaceable. His generosity was deep.  He would, like the Good Shepard, keep track of people from year-to-year and if they failed to come forward before the tax deadline he would reach out to them to ascertain if they were still in need of this services.  May he rest in peace as the good and faithful servant that he was!

https://www.brookdalefh.com/obituaries/dennis-sutton

Keep Your Eyes Always on the Lord: An Essay

 
I keep my eyes always on the Lord.  With Him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.
— Psalm 16:8
 

The other day I was playing with a young family member. She had her hands full of toys and was running around having a great time.  All of a sudden she lost her balance and fell, and it was a pretty hard fall.  The toys in her hands went all over the place, and one of her shoes managed to come flying off (as could only happen to a little kid).  She was laying on her back and looked at me with that look of uncertainty - deciding if she should cry or not.  She was looking to see my reaction to help her decide.  Knowing that I shouldn’t have a big reaction, I just looked down at her and smiled, to which she smiled back and yelled “Whoopsie!”.  I walked over to her, picked her up, helped her put her shoe back on, and she went back to running around and having fun.

The path of Christianity is a difficult one. As spiritual children the question isn’t “are we going to fall?”; rather the question is “how often and how hard are we going to fall?”.  Sometimes we will just stumble or trip, but other times we will fall so hard that one of our shoes comes off.

When we fall and we’re deciding how to react, it is important that we know who to look at.  If we look at the society around us they may encourage the fall, tell us that the fall was a good thing, and we should try to do it again.  If we look to the evil one, he may try to tell us that we’re defined by the fall and that we’ll never become better. Or if you’re like me, you’ll turn around and look at yourself.  You’ll get upset with yourself for falling and want to mope around in your brokenness.  And then you’ll want to pick yourself back up and tell yourself if you just work harder at it you won’t fall anymore (which for me will last a couple hours on a good day).

This is why it is important that when we fall, we must keep our eyes on the Lord.  As Jesus tells us, we should become like little children (Mt 18:4).  Saint Therese beautifully explains “To remain a child before God means to recognize our nothingness, to expect everything from God.  It is not to be discouraged over our fallings, for children fall often, but they are too little to hurt themselves much.”

It is our natural instinct to remain self-reliant when we fall, we will often tell ourselves we just need to work harder and that will prevent future falls.  Although our own personal efforts are important, the real improvements happen when we rely on the grace of God.  Saint Therese says “It is impossible for me to grow up, and so I must bear with myself such as I am, with all my imperfections.  But I want to seek out a means of going to heaven by a little way, a way that is very straight, very short and totally new … The elevator which must raise me up to heaven is your arms, O Jesus! And for this, I had no need to grow up, but rather I had to remain little and become this more and more”. 

The smaller we become, the more we come to rely on the grace of God and the more we grow in holiness! How simple of a solution!

There is no better example of this than Saint Peter.  Jesus invited Peter to walk out onto the roaring waters, and he was miraculously able to stay afloat (Mt 14:27-29).  How perfect is this imagery for us walking through the craziness of our modern world.  But, as soon as he took his eyes off the Lord he became frightened and started to sink.  While he was helplessly sinking, he once again looked back to the Lord and ‘cried out “Lord, save me!”, and immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him” (Matthew 14:30-31).  How different this story would be; if while he was sinking, rather than looking to the Lord, Peter had tried to help himself!

No matter how badly we’re sinking, or how hard we’ve fallen we just need to keep our eyes focused on the Lord.  If we follow the example of Saint Peter and cry out “Lord, save me!”, He will be there to pick you up, help you put your shoes back on, and get you back on the path to holiness.

Saint Peter, pray for us!

Saint Therese, pray for us!

-This essay was written by a parishioner who requested to remain anonymous.

 
Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.
— Psalm 118:1