Advent Giving Tree Thank you

St. Thomas the Apostle Parishioners have done an amazing job participating in this year’s Annual Advent Giving Tree Program. Your generosity and continued support have not only made this program successful, but have brightened the Christmas season for many.

This season we split the requests between the actual tags on the trees and a digital version. Every gift was labeled with the organization and all gift cards had a dollar value. This was so appreciated when sorting and distributing.

We collected over $4,000 in ShopRite, Target & Kohl’s gift cards for our parish. There were 84 very large bags of gifts along with $155 in gift cards for the organizations listed below:

1. Family Promise –renamed from Interfaith Hospitality for the Homeless of Essex County - Montclair, NJ

2. Dr. Lena Edwards Charter School - Jersey City, NJ

3. RWJ Barnabas Health Center for Hemophilia – Newark NJ

4. St Rose of Lima Parish – Newark NJ

5. Mercy House - Newark NJ

6. St. Joseph’s Social Service Center, Elizabeth NJ

Special thanks to everyone who participated and assisted in moving and sorting the gifts along with the Communications Committee.

The Organizations are very thankful to the St Thomas Community for their giving spirit and asked us to share their gratitude and prayers for all of us in the new year.

Parish Members honored by the Archdiocese for Youth Ministry Service

We are thrilled to share that members of our parish have been honored at the Archdiocese of Newark Youth Ministry Recognition Ceremony on December 4 for their service to our Youth Group!

These awards are presented to youth who respond to the call to discipleship through service to their parish, and to adults who have demonstrated a commitment to young people and youth ministry in their parish.

From STAYG, we honored:

Archdiocesan Parish Youth Discipleship Award: Kaitlyn LeSuer, IHA 2024 & Teresa Nole, BHS 2025

Archdiocesan Parish Adult Light of the World Award: Debra Nole, parent volunteer

Thank you all for your commitment to Youth Ministry at St. Thomas!

Update on Father Larry

Fr. Larry will be discharged from the hospital tomorrow, December 13th, following his heart catheterization and surgery for heart valve replacement last week.

He will be on home rest and rehabilitative recovery for six weeks.

He thanks everyone for their prayers - they are working! He is doing very well. He also thanks the professionals at Morristown Medical Center. He is also grateful for continued prayers for his parents.

If you would like to send him a message of encouragement, please email him at frlarry@stachurchbloomfield.org.

In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit:

Loving Father, we give you all praise and glory for your mercy and love. We thank you for granting Fr, Larry a safe passage through surgery, and we ask you to continue to protect him as he begins his journey of recovery.

Father, we ask this blessing through Jesus Christ our Lord, in the love of your Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Thank you Oak View School for your donation to our Food Pantry!

Many thanks to Cammie Brian, Heather Smith-Bermudez, Patrice Maher, and all at Oak View School, for their generous donation of groceries to our St. Thomas Food Pantry! The donated food has been distributed to families inside and outside of our parish, and to local soup kitchens.

St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta says that acts of love can generate miracles that are truly unimaginable and extraordinary. Let us live charity in daily life with the people who surround us, to love especially those who are smallest and most poor, and to give everything to Jesus, who is thirsting for our love.

God bless you Oak View School!

Parishioner's Loss due to Fire: Visit GoFundMe Link to Help Out

A family of four (with children ages 2 and 7) who are parishioners have lost their entire home in Nutley, NJ to a tragic fire.

Thankfully, no one was injured in the blaze. However, the community has come together to help them by creating this GoFundMe link to help offset the costs of dealing with this crisis. Please visit the link today to donate:

https://gofund.me/35058527

RCIA Blog: What will we become?

What will we become?

Every great person was in the beginning a small, helpless baby in the arms of his or her mother. What that baby may be one day was a mystery except for the mother who knew her baby would always be special. God, like the very best of mothers, sees our potential, that is, what he has called us into life to be. God knows even when we do not.  

Among the amazing facts of life is that we are always the same and different than we were before.  A 65-year-old man is the same and different then when held in his mother's arms. What is the answer to this paradoxical riddle? Philosophers have come up with various theories about this strange reality.  St. Thomas Aquinas, the Angelic Doctor of the Church (c.1265 AD), and in turn by the Church, embraced a theory by the classical Greek philosopher Aristotle (c.330 BC). Aristotle explained this paradox by defining two primary characteristics of all things: matter and form. Matter, for Aristotle, was the indistinguishable stuff or material of all things. Form is what we recognize and gives the matter sensible (available to the senses) characteristics. Aquinas used this concept to explain that the soul is the form of the body. The body is the physical stuff and the soul is what makes us what we are (human beings) and who we are (Deb, Greg, Brian, Alissa, Jen, etc.)

The most interesting part of the matter and form philosophy is that it fits well with Holy Scripture. St. Thomas drew on the idea that matter, physicality, has within it two states of being; potency and actuality. Potency is what the thing has the potential to be or become.  Actuality is what we perceive it to be right now. Every living thing has within it, potency, or the potential to grow, mature, and die. It is actualized in a particular time by size, shape, and age with certain attributes. The acorn is actualized as small, compact, and bursting with potential.  Its potency is that it could be a might oak tree one day. Its natural path of life is to achieve the potential for which it was created.

Aquinas used Aristotle’s explanation of being to explain God’s intent for the creation of men and women. Human beings are created matter and form, body and soul, to achieve our natural full potential. We understand our natural full potential as attaining the gifts of Adam and Eve before the Fall. They had one supernatural gift (sanctifying grace and lack of original sin). And three preternatural gifts, infused knowledge (lacking ignorance), immortality (lacking mortality, sickness, death), and integrity of passions (passions are aligned with the will, lacking struggle between what is right to do versus what I want to do).

Because of their Fall from grace, we suffer from the four wounds: Original Sin (lack of sanctifying grace, and thus righteousness), ignorance (lack of knowledge), concupiscence (passions no longer integrated under reason, the war within us between what is right and what we want), mortality and sickness (the body no longer strengthened). Yet, within us is the potential to rise above these wounds. Jesus Christ was born, lived, died, and rose again so that we may achieve our highest potential as true sons and daughters of God. We are only able to do this by the grace of God.

Aquinas wrote extensively about the effect of grace upon us. We experience our progression from potential to actuality. We hold an infant, help a toddler to stand and walk, play with a child, guide an adolescent, tolerate young adults, encourage mature adults, and help and care for elderly adults. These stages of life actualize the potential in each person. St. Thomas held that the actualization we experience of our bodies, our physicality, is not experienced in our souls. Our souls are spiritual, not physical, and so do not have potency or potential to change which is associated with matter. Our souls are fully actualized but they are injured by original sin and the wounds of the Fall. Unlike other living things, who progress from potential to actuality in their natural lives, like the acorn to oak tree, we humans cannot. The Fall injured us body and soul. 

Our medicine must address both aspects of our humanness. Jesus Christ came to heal both. The Church continues Jesus’ mission for salvation by offering the sacramental life. The sanctifying grace of baptism heals our soul. The sacramental grace we receive in the life of the Church engages us physically and nourishes our souls. What will we be become? It is natural and proper for us to become sons and daughters of God who created us and loves us. We cannot do it on our own. We need God’s grace. Jesus Christ redeemed us by his sacrifice. His Church offers us the sacramental life of grace that aids our natural potential. “The sacraments are efficacious signs of grace, instituted by Christ and entrusted to the Church, to give divine life” (CCC 1131).        

– Frank Miller

Prayers Requested for our Pastor, Fr. Larry

Our pastor Fr. Larry will undergo a heart catheterization on Thursday, December 8th, and the following day, December 9th, will undergo surgery to replace a heart valve.

Please keep him in your prayers, as this will be a major surgery with a long recovery.

If you would like to send him a message of encouragement, you may email him at frlarry@stachurchbloomfield.org.

 

In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit:

God of Health and Wholeness,
We offer this prayer
For our dear pastor and friend Fr. Larry
as we desire for him to be restored
to the balance of good health.

We pray for a successful surgery and for the
medical staff who will be working with him
so that he may fully recover,
and return with renewed zeal
to the daily life that we share. Amen.